hi!
Hi!
a/s/l
26/female/LA usa and u?
27/male/chicago and single ready to mingle… 
sweet !
what do u do?
I am a professional boxer.. I play for money ..and u?
I am a ballet dancer and trainer
gosh!!!
I was just watching my buddy Daniels’ screen. There he was 40+ , slightly on the plump side , almost bald and unable to climb the third floor when the lift was not working. Boxer ..my foot. Yet he could go on and on…for hours , one lie after the other. Later he would try to meet the girls he chatted with. Dunno how he could gather the guts but somehow he did.
So one day after numerous chats he decided to meet this one too. We waited for hours before we got a call. Hi! I would love to meet you but i have a confession to make…. ahh.. emm… I am not as young as I said . Well I could see a grin on Daniels face. “Its ok”, he said . So, how old are you?
53… THUD!!!!
Honesty is the human quality of communicating and acting truthfully related to truth as a value. This includes listening, and any action in the human repertoire — as well as speaking. Superficially, honesty means simply stating facts and views as best one truly believes them to be. It includes both honesty to others, and to oneself and about one’s own motives and inner reality. Honesty, at times, has the ability to cause misfortune to the person who displays it. Honesty can also mean fairness, and truthfulness, and the avoidance of misleading people.
Web and honesty are a rare combination. Judging by my personal experiences I am afraid extremly rare.
So I thought why not create a new word. Who knows it might become a movement one day .
My crusade is about WEB+HONESTY = “WONESTY”.
If all works well , some years from now people wud say ..hi I am xyz and I am Wonest.
Average homosapien spends 3-4.5 hours on the Internet. At any given time 15% of humanity is not practicing “WONESTY”.
Imagine …Trades , deals , chats ,confessions, promises, miracle cures, tourism, counselling etc etc .. All aided and abetted by dishonesty in the real and “DISWONESTY” in the virtual world.
Well! we might end up spending 15% of our lives in an unreal , DISWONEST virtual world. Scary!! isn’t it?
But then imagine if Daniel was honest. OH for gods sake I know its difficult to imagine that but hypothecially. Then the conversation would go like this…
hi!
Hi!
a/s/l
53/female/champaign usa and u?
46/male/palm springs and married always on the leash…
sweet !
what do u do?
i am a cook at the Indian eatery?
i work at the grocery store.
ok ttyl.. bye
It is hard to believe that a man is telling the truth when you know that you would lie if you were in his place. ~Henry Louis Mencken, A Little Book in C Major, 1916
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December 5, 2008 at 7:10 am |
Honesty is becoming a very rare thing in todays world and especially in the virtual world it is very rare. The main reason for this is because the web hides the real identity of the person. Sometimes this dishonesty also causews serious problems to arise. I appreciate your initiative for “wonesty” and if it works well it will create a revolution in the internet and make it an more reliable and safe place.
December 5, 2008 at 7:12 am |
Honesty Hurts!
People think if they are honest, it sometimes hurts a relationship to go further. But they dont understand at the end honesty will reveal. same happened in daneil case..
December 5, 2008 at 7:15 am |
well tat is a well thought word “WONESTY”… To what monika replied,its not the situation.only after u start a conversation,situation arises.So its important to be honest or else as mentioned we might end up in a Dishonest virtual world.
December 5, 2008 at 7:31 am |
hello sir, the most important thing in our life is the honesty..its the best policy. we should accept the fact thing, we should not refuse to consider the factual information. we need this in every field…whether it is personal or professional. by following this honesty,u will never be scared of doin anything which will be easy to achieve the goal.
December 5, 2008 at 7:39 am |
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… Wonesty, is an interesting word… An interesting fact is that nowadays none immediately gives their true identity during a first time conversation and even though the other person gives their identity we dont really believe that….
December 5, 2008 at 7:40 am |
i personally go with “wonesty” but people are more influnced by “diswonest”,according to me among 10 people 9 will be “diswonest”,because of this people perception is more diverted to “diswonest”.while chatting its how you attract the person with “honesty”.
thats what we call great quality.
December 5, 2008 at 7:41 am |
hi monika..appreciate your feelings abt honesty of web.i appreciate the fact that u believe it can be a basic quality or virtue .thnx keep writing
December 5, 2008 at 7:45 am |
“wonesty”-I must say its really a great innovation.To be honest on the web one should try to be honest at heart first. Monica you are absolutely right that its very rare nowadays…but the question is why? because we all want very quick success in our life and for that the shortest way is to supress the truth wherever needed and if its continues then what pururshotyom said will be true very soon.if we take individual initiative then we can add some value to the world.
December 5, 2008 at 8:36 am |
hi,
we have thought n learn’t “HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY” but do you think do we follow in our day today life?……. it is went we are not honest the conversation continous..today’s world goes on the web were the is vast scope of diswonest. its nice to here a word wonesty.most of the pople belive in diswonesty …..
December 5, 2008 at 8:38 am |
you are right monica
December 5, 2008 at 8:42 am |
Be “Wonest”
Good to be said in words but not in action. People tend to be honest , but most of the time they could not. To get impressed by someone or to got noticed, we should lie. Nobody will listen to a person, even if he tells the truth. As a very honset man, it is difficult to survive in this world, c’os no man is perfect.
December 5, 2008 at 8:43 am |
hi,
we have thought n learn’t “HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY” but do you think do we follow in our day today life?……. it is when we are not honest the conversation continous for a long time..today’s world goes on the web were the is vast scope of diswonesty. its nice to here a word wonesty.most of the pople belive in diswonesty …..
December 5, 2008 at 8:48 am |
Honesty must be given prority it might hurt but at the end it will work definitely. Being dishonest we will get wat we want but it will not be permanent with us. So its better to being honest whatever we are doing then ony we can give justice for the work which we are doing.